For me, kissing is the ultimate turn on. In my experience it can relax, rile up, and ultimately connect two people. 

I love to kiss…

Spending an evening just making out is amazing. Granted if that’s as far as it goes, I’m parting as a dripping wet, turned on mess, but it’s still fun and worth it. 

If I gave up BDSM; the pain I love, D/s as a whole, and anything kinky, I would still need kissing in my relationship(s). 

I’ve found it’s a baser need of mine. Not just a want, but a need…