#30DaysofKink – Days 26 to 30

Day 26: What is your opinion on online BDSM play?

Online only is not for me, I need to be able to see my Dom in person sometimes, I need the physical connection.  If it works in a healthy way for other people, then more power to them. I just couldn’t.  I’ve also found that my submissive side connects and is engaged more when in person than when not. So, for online only, I’d never be able to fully get that, so it would be unfulfilling for me. Continue reading

*reblog * The Quad – My Poly Origins (Krys) —

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Hey, it’s me!  Friends of ours asked the quad to contribute to their blog.  In the recent past we’ve introduced ourselves, answered a reader question, and this time I detailed how I came to realize I was polyamorous.  Check it out!  Also check out the other stuff on their blog, if you haven’t already.

~Krys

#30DaysofKink – Day 18 and 19

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves?  If so, what are they?

Maybe it’s because I haven’t been into kink/BDSM for that long, but I don’t have many pet peeves that automatically come to mind. I’ve been more focused on figuring myself out, and where I fit within it all to really worry about what others may think. Here are the couple I did think of: Continue reading

#30DaysofKink – Days 12, 13, and 14

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had.  If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.

I’ve heard some funny stories from friends of mine, but haven’t had many happen to myself.  One thing that happened wasn’t during a scene, but did inhibit a scene from happening.  Gun, Bob, Lexxi, and myself all went to the swingers club by my house and Bob had planned to strap me to the St Andrew’s cross they have there.  It was the fall, and Bob’s allergies were particularly bad right then.  Lexxi mixed a couple of drinks for the guys, and made the first ones rather strong.  Since he had taken some allergy meds before leaving, Bob was soon dozing on one of the couches in the main room among the loud music and bad porn that was playing.  When we went to the back of the club to play pool, he came with us and continued dozing in a chair back there.  One of the other ladies who was there for the night came over and said she’d debated sitting on his lap and smushing her boobs in his face.  We all told her to go for it as he loves boobs lol. Continue reading