Soon after getting back from Forbidden last year, Gun declared that he wanted to attend the next one. I think I he was curious about it all, but the morning non-kinky grappling sessions finalized his decision to give it a try.
We had a year of planning. We had hoped to camp in a camper of some sort, but the one that was going to be lent to us fell through, so we were back to tent camping. That coupled with us not getting a serviced site, plus Bob’s health the month+ before had us evaluating if we were going to go right down to the end. Continue reading →
Online only is not for me, I need to be able to see my Dom in person sometimes, I need the physical connection. If it works in a healthy way for other people, then more power to them. I just couldn’t. I’ve also found that my submissive side connects and is engaged more when in person than when not. So, for online only, I’d never be able to fully get that, so it would be unfulfilling for me. Continue reading →
Hey, it’s me! Friends of ours asked the quad to contribute to their blog. In the recent past we’ve introduced ourselves, answered a reader question, and this time I detailed how I came to realize I was polyamorous. Check it out! Also check out the other stuff on their blog, if you haven’t already.
Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
Maybe it’s because I haven’t been into kink/BDSM for that long, but I don’t have many pet peeves that automatically come to mind. I’ve been more focused on figuring myself out, and where I fit within it all to really worry about what others may think. Here are the couple I did think of:Continue reading →
Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny.
I’ve heard some funny stories from friends of mine, but haven’t had many happen to myself. One thing that happened wasn’t during a scene, but did inhibit a scene from happening. Gun, Bob, Lexxi, and myself all went to the swingers club by my house and Bob had planned to strap me to the St Andrew’s cross they have there. It was the fall, and Bob’s allergies were particularly bad right then. Lexxi mixed a couple of drinks for the guys, and made the first ones rather strong. Since he had taken some allergy meds before leaving, Bob was soon dozing on one of the couches in the main room among the loud music and bad porn that was playing. When we went to the back of the club to play pool, he came with us and continued dozing in a chair back there. One of the other ladies who was there for the night came over and said she’d debated sitting on his lap and smushing her boobs in his face. We all told her to go for it as he loves boobs lol.Continue reading →
Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy.
I’m not one to flesh out vague thoughts or fantasies because I’ve learned the hard way that it leads to me having expectations, and they never pan out the way I had imagined. I’ve decided elaborate on an idea that I’d like to try, but am writing it as a story and not as something between myself and a specific person. If you’d asked me a year or two ago if I’d ever have thought about wanting something like this, I’d have called you nuts.Continue reading →