Wife Swap Weekend

Lexxi and I had mapped out our summer back in June, and talked about doing another swap weekend, like we did last summer.  We had penciled it in for the second last weekend in August, but thought we’d make it a husband swap weekend (the guys change houses) as we wife swapped last summer.  A few weeks later, we had all discussed it and decided to postpone it for a while, but then last minute we decided to go ahead with it.

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Relationship evolution

My relationship with Gun has evolved in the 19 years we’ve been together, moreso the last almost 3 years since we’ve opened up, so why should our poly relationship be any different? When a relationship evolves, it’s not necessarily a bad thing. With open communication, it’s actually a good thing. People can change, people can grow, and with that change and/or growth, if a relationship doesn’t evolve it’ll become stagnant and die off.

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